The beginning of a relationship is always fun and magical and intense. For the first couple of months, you won't be able to keep your hands off of each other. You'll feel gloomy if you aren't together every single day. And then time will start to take over and you'll begin to get so used to the relationship that you find yourself taking it for granted. Maybe you'll call, maybe you'll set-up a date, maybe you'll walk down the street holding hands? maybe you'll initiate steamy moments together like Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey do in 50 Shades of Grey. How do you keep the romance and the passion burning in your relationship to make it seem like it's always new?
First, never take it for granted. Second, always look as enticing as you did when you first got together. Third, stoke the fires of mystery. In steamy novels like E.L. James' best-selling "Fifty Shades of Grey", thrilling physical encounters are fuelled by enigmatic characters who seem to never run out of daring, passionate, and madly creative ways to satisfy their partners.
In translating the fictional physical moments of the wildly successful hot read, you don't necessarily have to actually duplicate each window-steaming passage in the book. The core appeal of James' first title in a trilogy has to do with Grey's willingness to do everything Steele needs and Steele's willingness to be explored and satisfied.
So be open and be willing to explore each other, to know how to satisfy one another, and never fear some fun little extras to keep it interesting. Deep, dark scented candles and sensual oils should heighten bath times together. Role-playing games with professionally made costumes can turn every night into an erotic odyssey. Adventurous, titillating adult toys will give life to your innermost desires and fantasies. Such ideas and such additions to your relationship will breathe new life to your old romance and keep the fires of passion burning even when you've become so deeply and intimately familiar with every birth mark, every perfect feature, every imperfection, and every idiosyncrasy.
Yes, 50 Shades of Grey is fiction and a fantasy for the most part. What is written can always be made real. But remember that every relationship is different and what is desirable (like bondage or washing your lover's hair) by most can mean unacceptable or awkward by some. So explore your desires by communicating with each other. And keep the sizzle between the sheets every single night with fun little extras you'll both enjoy.
Like in "Fifty Shades Of Grey", you must be open and willing to explore what can satisfy your partner and fire up your romance.
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